SHADES OF LIFE: Unspoken words“THEBITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES...

SHADES OF LIFE: Unspoken words“THEBITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES...: Unspoken words “THE BITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES ARE FOR THE WORDS LEFT UNSAID OR FOR THE DEEDS LEFT UNDONE.” “Marian was spend...

Unspoken words

“THE BITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES ARE FOR THE WORDS LEFT UNSAID OR FOR THE DEEDS LEFT UNDONE.”

“Marian was spending her last days of life in a multinational hospital in Germany.  Doctors have given up their hope, her husband; her son and the daughter in law were praying and hoping for a miracle to happen. One of these days Marian was going to take her last breathe in a hospital within the four walls around her. But she was not aware of anything. She was in her subconscious mind. She was in the other world. She was neither sad nor depressed over her condition. But she was deeply regretting, she was feeling incomplete. Though she made money, excelled in her career and has reached a certain height in her corporate business world. But yet there was something that made her restless. 

                              She was travelling through the old days of her life when she was a teenager, her hometown where she had left her heart and her inner dreams. Where she had her first true love and heart break, where she learnt to dream big and fly high. The grasslands were like green pearls in the land, the lakes and the rivers there were were like flowing with hope and virtues. There was a spark of love in mountains, hills, flowers, lakes and even in the droplet of water. The snow during the winter was like a mesmerizing touch of a newborn and reflected the intensity of the love she had. Those days the sun brought hope and love in her life. The season kept on changing, but her love was consistent. But she couldn’t muster up the courage to express her heart feelings for the one whom she loved. It was that time which was the most special and the most unforgettable part of her life.

 But She lost herself in the race for success, position and money. Even when she was lying in the bed waiting for death without any hold on the physical world; she was trying to find herself in those mountains, hills and lakes which she left far behind her.”

This is a simple story which every human being has to pass through in their life. We set out to accomplish our dreams, to taste success, go behind money and fame. But during those times we hardly look back to check what we actually left behind. But all those unfulfilled dreams, unspoken words and memories come back to us during our last days of our life. If Marian had mustered enough courage to express her feelings to the one whom she loved then the story might have been different.

                            One should never wait for a right time for fulfilling their dreams or to express their true feelings or to set out and relax. The moment one feel like doing something is the right time. This time is the right time. There is no sense in regretting about your life or about the decisions that you made in your life during those last few days of your life. In fact this moment is yours; whatever that you want to do just do it now. This moment will never be back again. There may be people who may discourage you, scold you, shout at you, call you dumb now but once you set back yourself to accomplish your inner dreams and to fulfill your heart with the happiness then those people will only praise you for your deeds.

There is no point in having a retirement plan if you are not living your life now. There is no point in saying that -

“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me". 

"I wish I hadn’t worked so hard. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings". 

"I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends." 

"I wish that I had let myself be happier then the story would have been different”.

There is no point in having the late realization. Self realization is better than the late realization. Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life. Inner dreams and love are the most important things in the life of a human being. And these two elements are the essence of the life which adds color and fragrance in our life but these elements becomes the biggest regrets of a human’s life during his last days if it is left unfulfilled.

Live your life now.

There is no future without the present.

Don’t find a reason to live life rather be a reason to live your life.

And unlock yourself from the hidden barriers and go express your true feelings.

Your story may turn out to be more vibrant and magnificent than the one you live now.

Life is like a story book. And you are the author of that book. Chapters in the book are the various instances of the author’s life and characters in the story are of the author’s choice.

Set out and live life without any terms and conditions !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: LOST IN Thoughts !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: LOST IN Thoughts !!!: Lost in thoughts! Thoughts are vital and powerful asset in this world that humans can actually possess. Thoughts rejuvenates human mind....

Lost in thoughts!

Thoughts are vital and powerful asset in this world that humans can actually possess. Thoughts rejuvenates human mind. It expresses the current state of mind. Thoughts are a part of the imaginary world of the mind that defines the materialistic state of the human. Thoughts and the nature resemble with each other a lot. The nature around us keeps changing. It is beautiful and peaceful during spring which brings life to the world. It is dark and soothing during winter. It is sprinkling and calm while drizzling during monsoon. It is like filaments and the burning desire during summer. Just like the nature which keeps changing its colors during different seasons; our thoughts also keeps on changing during different phases of life. Some thoughts are positive whereas some negative; some thoughts are creative whereas some powerful enough to change the view of the world. Some thoughts are like the water  in the empire of desert whereas some as the shadow. Water is the king and shadow is the queen in the empire of desert. Thoughts are the real image of the human nature; it is the foundation of the human existence. Thoughts are like the uncrowned king in the world of philosophy and nature.

My thoughts are like the stars in the sky.

My thoughts collide and create an impact.

My thoughts are countless but shines loud and clear.

My thoughts…

Lost in thoughts!!!

Thoughts are the imaginary weapon that is more powerful than the sword. Thoughts generated in the human mind are like the seasons that unleash the hidden beauty of the nature.

Seasons showcases  different shades of the nature. It brings out different colors of the nature.

It  enlightens and nourishes the Nature. Similarly thoughts rejuvenate our mind. It brings out the best in us. A perfect human being is not the one who manages his works, family or society in fact a perfect human being is the one who can manage his mind with his thoughts.

Thoughts are the luminous spark of reason that offers us hope even in the darkest hours; that produce wisdom. One can gain knowledge through education but can’t gain wisdom unless thoughts are generated.  One can gain happiness through the external luxury but can’t gain internal peace unless thoughts are rejuvenated. One can gain status and positions in the materialistic world but can’t gain soul to heart relationship status in the internal world of peace.

This world is the creation of the great thoughts that are provoking and inspiring. Never stop your thoughts. Let it flow like a stream where there is no shore. Let it grow and inspire.

Lost in thoughts!

SHADES OF LIFE: I AM SORRY !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: I AM SORRY !!!: I am sorry, I can’t please everyone. Is it necessary to please each and every person around us? Is it?? Ask this question to yourself no...

I AM SORRY !!!

I am sorry, I can’t please everyone.

Is it necessary to please each and every person around us? Is it?? Ask this question to yourself now …

We live in a society where we are so worried THINKING about what our neighbours think about us?? What our relatives think about us? What our parents think about us??  What our teachers think about us?? What our classmates think about us??  But we forget to “think about us”!

“Oh my grades are less! Now how will I show my face to the world?”

“Oh my neighbour’s daughter is in IIT, how I will show my face to my parents.”

“Oh I got only 2^nd prize for dance competition, how will I show my face to my teachers.”

·         And many more reasons to be sad and worried. Thinking about what others will think about ME is the main cause of worry. We worry a lot because we try to please others a lot. We worry a lot because our top most priority is the society we live in. There is nothing wrong in living with the terms and conditions of the society we live in but what is the use of this obedience if our wings are locked throughout the life. The wings to fly high and high. The wings to dream big. The wings which enlightens our mind and soul. The wings which is not a part of the society we live in. The wings which motivate us to do impossible. The wings which guide us through the difficult path of the life. We all have those wings to fly but for some it is locked. And they won’t dare to unlock it because of the imaginary worries that bother them. They want to please everyone around but don’t want to care about their actual dreams. When you keep the wings locked, how will you fly?? So stop pleasing everyone around unless and until you yourself is happy Inside.

These days we come across so many ways to handle stress, worries or problems in our life like coaching institutes for stress management, personality development. Training classes for peace of mind, books to tackle life problems with simple steps etc. But Take a moment of your life and just pause whatever you were doing and then ask a simple question to yourself “what is the reason for my worries?” And the answer will ultimately be because “we worry about the people around us”.

The human life span study shows that the human beings are mostly happy during their childhood days. Because as a child we need not have to worry about our grades, breakups or patch up , electricity bill or phone bill , attendance or grace marks , series or university exams etc etc…

As a grownup we have to be a responsible person and not a worrying person. Of course we must handle our exams, problems, marks, electricity bill etc, but we must never worry about it.  But what we do is to worry about certain stuffs in a way or the other rather than handling it in a more sensible way.

So stop worrying

Stop pleasing everyone around

Let the wings be unlocked

And follow your dreams.

Dreams will lead to destiny.

And destiny will certainly fill your heart and soul with the eternal peace.

SHADES OF LIFE: A Year Closer To Nature!!!A year full of hopes an...

SHADES OF LIFE: A Year Closer To Nature!!!
A year full of hopes an...: A Year Closer To Nature !!! A year full of hopes and dreams. I was gazing through the window of my room and was wondering how this ...

A Year Closer To Nature!!!

A year full of hopes and dreams.

I was gazing through the window of my room and was wondering how this year is going to change the world we live. But clueless and confused I closed the window and sat down to write this article. But before that, I switched on to the facebook which was flooded up with New Year wishes and pictures. People were busy posting their New Year resolutions, some updated their status as “thank god 2015 is over” while some others were still not able to believe that 2015 is over and we have stepped into the new vibrant year -2016. The virtual world had lots to offer but the real world was calm and serene. Some called up to wish me happy New Year while some texted over whatsapp. After a time slice of 1 hour all the commotion was finally over, at least for a while.  And then I wished myself a very happy new year with the true sense and feelings.  

This New Year post is not anything that is related to the New Year celebrations or the past years memories. In fact this post is just a reminder to the humankind about the uncrowned queen: the Nature and she should be welcomed in this vibrant and the glorious New Year. Nature always has something to offer to the human mind and soul. Unlike humans, nature doesn’t have a mixed behavior or emotions. Nature is something that remains calm and peaceful. I often see people going for vacations or travelling but the outcome of the trips and vacations are the phone gallery full of selfies and an updated facebook status. The aim of the travel should be to explore the nature and its beauty rather than the unrealistic virtual show off. Just like the nature, humans should also try to sparkle their inner beauty and freshness.  Each year should be marked up with a fresh and a new step towards the nature. Nature is the easiest connection that humans can ever get which neither requires any data pack connection or a wifi connection. Nature is the true picture of human soul that neither requires a like, comment or share. Nature doesn’t ask you to change your heart for any cause instead it will teach you to feel the pain and happiness of the mankind. Nature doesn’t ask you to sign in or logout to feel the connection instead you just have to open your arms and welcome the nature with your whole heart this year. Nature will stay with you forever and ever. Nature is a true philosopher and a supporter of the mankind. Let us celebrate this New Year with the Nature. 

Have a very happy new year!!