Unspoken words

“THE BITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES ARE FOR THE WORDS LEFT UNSAID OR FOR THE DEEDS LEFT UNDONE.”

“Marian was spending her last days of life in a multinational hospital in Germany.  Doctors have given up their hope, her husband; her son and the daughter in law were praying and hoping for a miracle to happen. One of these days Marian was going to take her last breathe in a hospital within the four walls around her. But she was not aware of anything. She was in her subconscious mind. She was in the other world. She was neither sad nor depressed over her condition. But she was deeply regretting, she was feeling incomplete. Though she made money, excelled in her career and has reached a certain height in her corporate business world. But yet there was something that made her restless. 

                              She was travelling through the old days of her life when she was a teenager, her hometown where she had left her heart and her inner dreams. Where she had her first true love and heart break, where she learnt to dream big and fly high. The grasslands were like green pearls in the land, the lakes and the rivers there were were like flowing with hope and virtues. There was a spark of love in mountains, hills, flowers, lakes and even in the droplet of water. The snow during the winter was like a mesmerizing touch of a newborn and reflected the intensity of the love she had. Those days the sun brought hope and love in her life. The season kept on changing, but her love was consistent. But she couldn’t muster up the courage to express her heart feelings for the one whom she loved. It was that time which was the most special and the most unforgettable part of her life.

 But She lost herself in the race for success, position and money. Even when she was lying in the bed waiting for death without any hold on the physical world; she was trying to find herself in those mountains, hills and lakes which she left far behind her.”

This is a simple story which every human being has to pass through in their life. We set out to accomplish our dreams, to taste success, go behind money and fame. But during those times we hardly look back to check what we actually left behind. But all those unfulfilled dreams, unspoken words and memories come back to us during our last days of our life. If Marian had mustered enough courage to express her feelings to the one whom she loved then the story might have been different.

                            One should never wait for a right time for fulfilling their dreams or to express their true feelings or to set out and relax. The moment one feel like doing something is the right time. This time is the right time. There is no sense in regretting about your life or about the decisions that you made in your life during those last few days of your life. In fact this moment is yours; whatever that you want to do just do it now. This moment will never be back again. There may be people who may discourage you, scold you, shout at you, call you dumb now but once you set back yourself to accomplish your inner dreams and to fulfill your heart with the happiness then those people will only praise you for your deeds.

There is no point in having a retirement plan if you are not living your life now. There is no point in saying that -

“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me". 

"I wish I hadn’t worked so hard. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings". 

"I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends." 

"I wish that I had let myself be happier then the story would have been different”.

There is no point in having the late realization. Self realization is better than the late realization. Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life. Inner dreams and love are the most important things in the life of a human being. And these two elements are the essence of the life which adds color and fragrance in our life but these elements becomes the biggest regrets of a human’s life during his last days if it is left unfulfilled.

Live your life now.

There is no future without the present.

Don’t find a reason to live life rather be a reason to live your life.

And unlock yourself from the hidden barriers and go express your true feelings.

Your story may turn out to be more vibrant and magnificent than the one you live now.

Life is like a story book. And you are the author of that book. Chapters in the book are the various instances of the author’s life and characters in the story are of the author’s choice.

Set out and live life without any terms and conditions !!!