Dear Me

In the era of open letters to mom, dad, sister, brother, every single or hooked up person and all the varied personas on this planet; an open letter to Me is highly necessary. This letter showcases the real power of the individual.The three advice that everyone has to give themselves.

Dear Me,

Life is been boring since few years. Agreed. But life has been interesting too dear. Look around you. Don't you think life has actually been changed? You have surpassed so many challenging paths in your life. Now as an individual evaluate yourself. You have grown up as a dignified personality. No matter what you do, No matter who's with you; what matters is that you have reached the heights of success. Success cannot be measured in terms of a ravishing job, quality education or cash which takes seconds to turn into just a piece of paper. In fact success is to be measured in terms of the dignity that you own, the personality that you perceive, and the attitude that fits as the crown on the head. So rather than being upset; start evaluating yourself. 

Advice 1: Learn to change your perception and the world will bow towards you.

Your relationship status on Facebook isn’t going to decide who you are. Being single isn't the sign of loneliness. In fact it is the sign of being independent enough to face the world on your own. You are an extra-powerful person. The heart breaks have added extra potential in you. The nature is praising you for what you have done material or immaterial. 

Advice 2: Understand the true meaning of being Single. Single means stronger.

After every cloudy night there comes a beautiful morning. But remember this cloudy dusky night makes you stronger than ever. This vivacious night makes you courageous enough to welcome more cloudy nights. This amour propre night makes you a cheerful person to welcome the bright morning with open arms. These cloudy nights resembles the hurdles that you have faced and will face in your life and these problems have made you what you are now. 

Advice 3: Problems are the lift that you have to take to reach the top floor of success. Only this lift can uplift you to the Seventh sky.

It is high time to come out of that comfy zone and show the world your powers. 

Grab an umbrella before you walk out into the rain!

Cut the Mustard !!!

Cut the mustard

Hope, inspiration, dreams and success. Often heard words. These are the words which could easily be encountered in any inspirational books; it serves as the bread of any motivational speech. Whenever in distress grab an inspirational book; read it and feel refreshed and confident. Again when you feel distress and tensed do the same or watch any inspirational movies or go and attend any motivational classes. Well is that the permanent solution? This is the question that we need to ask ourselves. Every human being on this earth goes through this situation of lack of confidence and tension or distress. Nobody can deny the fact that life is a game and it has got several levels to play and confidence is the only tool that a player can carry. The hurdles that one faces in this game are inescapable. The only difference is that life doesn’t gives us break as in games. The confidence should be built forever. In life one can’t pause and pump up confidence level and resume the game.

Life is unpredictable. No rules and regulations. Always unexpected should be expected in life. So to succeed in the game of life, reading books, novels or watching and attending inspirational workshops are not a wise solution always.

The best masters of our lives are we ourselves. We can bring a huge change in our lives. When in distress inspire yourselves. Your life itself is the best inspirational story to hear. Your past achievements are the best memories of your success which boosts up your confidence. No book can ever provide you with that moment of self realization. You are standing in this point of life after crossing several bridges of difficulties and hurdles. You don’t need a motivational workshops or movies to build up confidence in you. Rewind the moment of your success to visualize an inspirational movie. Flip through the old scraps of achievements to read an inspirational book. Listen to the inner master in you to hear a motivational speaker. It is within you; you don’t have to look around.  Every cloud has a silver lining. These silver linings will shower the happiness and joy upon you. Whenever caught between two stools just look within you for the advice.

Discover yourself.

Be the motivation. Not the distraction.

Enlighten yourself to cut the mustard !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: SWOT Analysis, Marketing and Nature !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: SWOT Analysis, Marketing and Nature !!!: A switch from nature to marketing. Well nature and marketing are interconnected to each other in a broad way.Just like different shades ...

SWOT Analysis, Marketing and Nature !!!

A switch from nature to marketing.

Well nature and marketing are interconnected to each other in a broad way.Just like different shades of nature , we do have different shades of marketing and marketing could best be analyzed with the help of the nature. As nature has different seasons to add essence to the spirit of the nature, in marketing SWOT plays a similar role. Just like four seasons of the nature, the four SWOT tools add essence to the marketing. 

SWOT:

Well often heard word. right ?

Yeah..

But it do have one fundamental usage in the field of marketing and analysis.

Marketing research and analysis team in any firm deals with this word in day to day life to exemplify their product and evaluate the needs of the consumers.

Marketing is all about understanding and meeting customer needs.

Real time marketing takes advantage of current events in producing timely communication that reaches the market quickly and efficiently. Whatever may be the scenario,SWOT acts like a cherry on the cake which ultimately helps in the overall progress of the product in a  substantial manner. 

So What is SWOT ?

S-STRENGTHS

W-WEAKNESS

O-OPPORTUNITIES

T-THREATS

It is mandatory to be aware about the strength of the company. It gives an overview about the future needs and basis among the customers.The knowledge about the weakness is an unavoidable aspect as one needs to know about the weakness or the shortcomings of the product to be launched. The opportunities off course gives a new dimension and strength to the product basement. More the opportunities more will be the needs and which will eventually help in expertise and marketing. Threats - to be aware of the competitors in the market is essential and will help to revolutionise the brand in the market.

Segmentation and Market research leads to target more consumers and establish quality over quantity in a broad way. The objectives of the market research focuses on collecting data from the past or present and making decisions on the basis of the future requirements.The key insight to any marketing team broadly involves to establish a permanent growth of the products. But market is dynamic according to the varying interests of the consumers, therefore a perfect planning structure is required to popularise the product in a more general way.

The dynamic marketing environment and establishing the need for the product among the users is necessary for the growth of the firm. The awareness about the Competitions in the market, the Customers and the Company is helpful to implement the tools of SWOT in the business analytical world.

Strengths and Weakness are internal but the Opportunities and Threats are external. The efficient implementation of the SWOT tools can help in the business growth both internally and externally.Business is a dynamic game and Marketing tends to be one of the key levels in it. 

So the best things can be learned from the nature. Everything is available in the more simpler manner than anything else in the lap of the nature. From analytics to statistics;coding to development; the tools of business or the ingredients of technology everything is comprised in nature.  

Explore the nature to unleash the knowledge.

SHADES OF LIFE: Pumpkin Face

SHADES OF LIFE: Pumpkin Face: Pumpkin Face Life is like a roller coaster ride. In the beginning it will be very much scary, as it goes up the nervousness takes the fo...

Pumpkin Face

Pumpkin Face

Life is like a roller coaster ride. In the beginning it will be very much scary, as it

goes up the nervousness takes the form of anticipation and excitement, upon

reaching the top one feels empty and upon rolling down the nervousness and

emptiness takes the form of joy and happiness. This mixed emotion resembles 

the life cycle of every individual. Just like a roller coaster ride, life also has its ups and downs.But the choice of screaming or enjoying the ride depends completely on you.

Hope is the only emotion that keeps one motivating and stable; once the hope is

lost, life takes the form of an autumn leaf in despair and agony. But as the sun of

the spring rises and throws its light on the autumn leaf, it rejuvenates into a

sparkling new leaf just like a new born baby which symbolizes a new beginning.

The mocking faces, the fuzzy jokes and a crying helpless heart is a deadly

combination of loneliness. But this combination when spiced up with little

motivation and strength can turn you up into a successful human being.

Life gives you a chance to live your life, to succeed, to smile, to breathe ……

Life is a journey.

Success is the destination.

Hope is your companion.

In your journey to success and glory, with each footstep that you keep forward

there will be several obstacles and hurdles in your path. Some may mock at you,

many will make fun of you or crack jokes on you. Your dear ones may betray you.

Your loved ones will hate you. But the only one who will stay forever with you is

you yourself. Hold yourself tight throughout the journey. The obstacles will try to

turn you into a capricious person. Turn your weakness into your biggest strength.

Just like the stars among the planets, always twinkle to showcase your presence.

Don’t be a pumpkin for people to carve !!

SHADES OF LIFE: Misologist :I was gazing at the sky throughthe win...

SHADES OF LIFE: Misologist :I was gazing at the sky throughthe win...: Misologist : I was gazing at the sky through the window of my star-dusted room. Thousands of thoughts were popping up in my mind. In t...

Misologist :

I was gazing at the sky through the window of my star-dusted room.

Thousands of thoughts were popping up in my mind. In that very second, I could feel the pleasure of being exultant and blissful to enjoy the real beauty of the nature. The luxurious and epicurean lifestyle could never offer the feeling of being in the lap of Mother Nature.

Taking few minutes from the accustomed and anticipated life and spending quality time with the nature can transform our vision and purify our soul.

Jane was a misologist person. The one who hated arguments, discussions and specifically questioning or reasoning. But Jerry was a person who always kept on asking questions and which ultimately helped him boost up his love for reasoning. Reasoning the philosophy of life became his passion. He ultimately started thinking which helped him to find answers. Jerry gained wisdom and he became savvy and a liberal person. On the other hand, Jane became more annoying and haughty. As days passed by, his barbarian and boorish nature grew and his evil nature covered up the shrewdness that he had. His vicious and heinous nature became perilous to the society.

Our mind is like a child who wants to know and acknowledge everything. Restricting the freedom of our mind to question will ultimately make us dull and iffy in nature. Being capricious or unsure creates a foreshadow of our own downfall.

An assiduous and sedulous human always succeeds in life. But questioning the thought and discovering the answers could only transform a human from being dull and idle to sedulous one. The secret to success lies in the willingness to question. The person who is willing to ASK QUESTIONS will discover answers to his questions which will transform him into a wise human.

Life is like a mirage. It’s our hallucination that motivates us to move forward with a hope to find something favorable. But it is not wise to follow the way that is meant to lead us nowhere rather find a way by yourself. Similarly we have to question ourselves to make life worthy enough to live. Following an imaginary path will not lead us anywhere rather we end up being hopeless and dejected. Shimmer like a sun to guide way to others. Our thoughts generate questions that when answered have a power to create history and victory. Questions have a magic to enlighten this world. The questions that are left unanswered are like salt in the sea water. The extraction of the salt is salutary. The salt which is in abundance resembles the questions in real and its extraction means answers that could create magic. Knowledge is having the right answer; Intelligence is asking the right question. So be curious; keep asking Questions and keep discovering great Ideas.

Dusky Forest

Little Mary started walking through the woods .The moment she started walking towards the wild husky forest; She was determined of facing all the troubles that were awaiting her behind the  dusky sizzling bushes and tall trees.  She heard his voice  and her determination started to fade away slowly . She heard the thunder roll and she started trembling with fear. She felt like she was moving towards the death.

She ran harder and harder and finally when she was about to reach her destination an external force pulled her backward. Who pulled her ?? She saw him ; He looked like a hideous "BEAST" . He was tall. He had long hairs and witches teeth. He had arthritic, spindly legs, like an old spider. Was he the beast from  Gabriel Suzanne's Beauty and the Beast ?? She kept thinking who was he ??? And suddenly he came out of the dark like a wild cat.

                                                 

                                                                That wild beast was none other than the little Mary's another version. It was her inner fear that has taken the form of a beast. She wanted to escape out of this board game of illusions that was threatening her and pulling her backward. But she was helpless. She has tied herself on her own.

We all dream of reaching heights and kissing the sky of success. When we start our journey our determination level is maximum but as we move forward towards our destination the determination and the courage we had starts to fade away.And then we end up thinking that we can't reach our goal but hold on a second and  take a moment of your life and think about the determination , courage and passion that has kept you moving ahead  till now. How can you sacrifice your dream just because of the negative emotions that were haunting you. We all have came across such a situation at least once in our lifetime where  we have to decide between our dreams and emotions. 

                                                 When emotions starts controlling us;We become the slaves of ourselves. Then our inner self transforms into the Giant beast.We are the creators of the beast. These moody emotions pave the way for the creation of the Beast.Don't let your emotions distract you from doing what needs to be done. Control your emotions or your emotions will control you. One of the deadliest emotion among all is Fear. Fear of Losing ; Fear of getting defeated. Stop letting Fear Rule your life.

Fear was ruling the heart of little Mary at that very moment.She had two options ; either to get defeated by the Fear or else conquer her fear.

Kill the fear and beast will take the form of the angel. 

Little Mary closed her eyes and thought for a moment .She Mustered all her courage and with utmost determination in her heart and soul ; She opened up her eyes and looked back again. She saw few folks coming out of the dusky bushes. They laid her the path to her destination. These folks were none other than the angels and these angels reside in the heart of the ordinary human being.

When we believe in negativity we could only find negativity around but when we chant positive hymns we could smell the fragrance of love and hope around.

SHADES OF LIFE: WALL OF DREAMS !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: WALL OF DREAMS !!!: Wall of dreams!!! If world would have been a canvas then the dreams of an artist could have been visible. But this world is neither a ...

WALL OF DREAMS !!!

Wall of dreams!!!

If world would have been a canvas then the dreams of an artist could have been visible. But this world is neither a canvas nor the artist could showcase himself. The artist has become a puppet who is a slave of an anonymous puppeteer. The puppeteer pulls the puppet’s strings. The artist’s dreams have turned into the string which is controlled by the puppeteer. But one day puppet realizes his feelings; he wakes up ; trembling, shivering and finally gathering enough courage he cuts down the strings and unfolds his wings of dreams and takes his first step towards a new world of hopes , world of dreams and magic.

                          This world is new for him. The vivacious night sky, the glittery stars, the mighty moon warmly welcomed him.  ZEUS the god of lightning, thunder and rain praised his deeds. Mother Earth opened up her arms to welcome him.

The queen of the kingdom Earth: Trees welcomed him, provided shelter for him, fed him and protected him.

The king of the kingdom Earth: Oceans welcomed him proudly for his courage and strong ambition to free him from the strings and to live out his dreams.

Then finally he stepped into the real world; a world which resembles to the spider’s web where many truths are strangled. The creatures of that world were called humans with inhuman feelings. They saw him coming towards them. They stopped him, questioned him, scolded him, and humiliated him for cutting down the strings. Those creatures  cut down the artist’s wings of dreams. They threatened him to go back to the puppeteer. They thrashed him and finally he left in despair and agony.

This artist resembles to each and every individual who leads a life against his dreams. In fear of society, parents and friends they convince themselves to lead a mechanical life like a robot killing all their feelings. Every individual has an artist in them who have immense talent which can shake this world. Don’t let that artist die. Let that artist grow and let him do wonders. Let that canvas become a wall of dreams !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: ROAD LESS TRAVELED

SHADES OF LIFE: ROAD LESS TRAVELED: Road less traveled!!!  Travelling is a passion for some but for some travelling is fun. For some travelling gives satisfaction but for...

SHADES OF LIFE: Woman: A Sunshine She who glitterslike stars in th...

SHADES OF LIFE: Woman: A Sunshine She who glitterslike stars in th...: Woman: A Sunshine   She who glitters like stars in the sky. She who shines like a sun. She who sparkles like a moon. She is none...

Road less traveled!!!

 Travelling is a passion for some but for some travelling is fun. For some travelling gives satisfaction but for some travelling is just a time pass. Travelling is someone’s hobby while for some travelling is like their heartbeat; they can’t stop themselves from doing it else it’s conclusion can be predicted.

Spend some time staring at the sky, cherish yourself with the twinkling of the stars , listen to those hundred stories that the full moon has to tell you and just get amazed.Each path that we take in our life teaches us a lesson ; a valuable lesson which can never be learned from any books . Similarly each road we take during our journey will take us to different destinations and will offer us with variant experiences. Take those roads which are traveled less. Don’t follow the folks. Set your own path.

Climb up the mountains, walk through the dense forests ,swim , dance , sing , cry , laugh , smile , fall down ,fly high but don’t stop yourself and  just explore more and more . Keep travelling and try to find the real you. Finding x in the mathematical equation or debugging the code will not give you  a self-enlightened life. But the life experiences , various hurdles and struggles will definitely teach you a lesson that would lead you to a self-enlightened and peaceful life.

Take a break and just fly high and make your nest in the wet clouds. We all are born with wings ; but we ourselves have locked it . Just unlock it and fly high.  And witness the birth of this beautiful world in front of your eyes. Each road and each moment of your journey has a lot to offer ; accept it and enjoy the ride of life ! Each road will take you to  that destination which is meant for you.

Feel the rain

Feel the breeze

Listen to your heartbeat

Listen to the chirping of birds

Listen to the Thundering of clouds

Travel through the road less traveled !!!

Talking to the stars !!!

As a child we all used to do this at one point of time i.e. talking to the stars. Stars used to be the inevitable companion of our childhood.

Stars- neither they argue nor they used to shout at us just like our friends, parents or teachers ;in fact they just used to glitter and that glittering of stars resembled to the smile of a newborn baby. That smile was something which was incomparable, was the most sincere as well and as we grow up that smile seems to be diminishing.

 As a child, we used to gaze up in the sky and used to tell that sincere friend  of ours everything that happened in a day, everything starting from the morning coffee to the evening tea. We always believed that doesn’t matter if someone is going to stay with us or not but this one friend is going to be with us forever.

And then we grew up and we lost our friend somewhere far away and away behind the mountains surrounded by the dense forest.

Today in this materialistic world we are surrounded by the fake smiles and mean faces. Those faces smile in the morning, afternoon and evening but they aren’t the one with whom you could actually share your thoughts, They aren’t the one who would always be there for you when you need them ,they aren’t the one who will support you in your difficult times, they aren’t the one who loves you.

They are the one who may hate you from the bottom of their heart but still give that fake smile. They are the one who will never blossom up the garden of your life in fact they are the one who will pluck out the flowers from your garden. As we move forward in life we will be meeting and surrounded by such mean faces. In each and every stage of life we will meet them, the choice is very simple either be with them or just ignore them. But whatever you do just make sure to find out and bring back that friend of yours who was lost somewhere. You haven’t lost him in any dense forest on the top of the mountains in fact you have lost him in you. That friend of yours with whom you actually used to talk is not that star in the sky in fact that friend is your inner version. In fact you were talking to yourself only and that conversation used to give an immense self satisfaction. Wake him up from your inner self and try to talk to him once more and see the magic .Life around you will get changed once again. Life will bring out surprises that will cherish your mind, work and success will be on your feet. Only you can reinvent yourself.

The best motivator to hire for you is yourself. It wasn’t star who vanished away all your problems in fact it was your inner self who did that.

Try to find that friend in you. A friend who will never leave you in your hard times. Choice is yours. Whether you want to choose those fake smiling robots or that innocent friend who is sleeping inside you. Give him a wake up call.

SHADES OF LIFE: Unspoken words“THEBITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES...

SHADES OF LIFE: Unspoken words“THEBITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES...: Unspoken words “THE BITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES ARE FOR THE WORDS LEFT UNSAID OR FOR THE DEEDS LEFT UNDONE.” “Marian was spend...

Unspoken words

“THE BITTEREST TEARS SHED OVER GRAVES ARE FOR THE WORDS LEFT UNSAID OR FOR THE DEEDS LEFT UNDONE.”

“Marian was spending her last days of life in a multinational hospital in Germany.  Doctors have given up their hope, her husband; her son and the daughter in law were praying and hoping for a miracle to happen. One of these days Marian was going to take her last breathe in a hospital within the four walls around her. But she was not aware of anything. She was in her subconscious mind. She was in the other world. She was neither sad nor depressed over her condition. But she was deeply regretting, she was feeling incomplete. Though she made money, excelled in her career and has reached a certain height in her corporate business world. But yet there was something that made her restless. 

                              She was travelling through the old days of her life when she was a teenager, her hometown where she had left her heart and her inner dreams. Where she had her first true love and heart break, where she learnt to dream big and fly high. The grasslands were like green pearls in the land, the lakes and the rivers there were were like flowing with hope and virtues. There was a spark of love in mountains, hills, flowers, lakes and even in the droplet of water. The snow during the winter was like a mesmerizing touch of a newborn and reflected the intensity of the love she had. Those days the sun brought hope and love in her life. The season kept on changing, but her love was consistent. But she couldn’t muster up the courage to express her heart feelings for the one whom she loved. It was that time which was the most special and the most unforgettable part of her life.

 But She lost herself in the race for success, position and money. Even when she was lying in the bed waiting for death without any hold on the physical world; she was trying to find herself in those mountains, hills and lakes which she left far behind her.”

This is a simple story which every human being has to pass through in their life. We set out to accomplish our dreams, to taste success, go behind money and fame. But during those times we hardly look back to check what we actually left behind. But all those unfulfilled dreams, unspoken words and memories come back to us during our last days of our life. If Marian had mustered enough courage to express her feelings to the one whom she loved then the story might have been different.

                            One should never wait for a right time for fulfilling their dreams or to express their true feelings or to set out and relax. The moment one feel like doing something is the right time. This time is the right time. There is no sense in regretting about your life or about the decisions that you made in your life during those last few days of your life. In fact this moment is yours; whatever that you want to do just do it now. This moment will never be back again. There may be people who may discourage you, scold you, shout at you, call you dumb now but once you set back yourself to accomplish your inner dreams and to fulfill your heart with the happiness then those people will only praise you for your deeds.

There is no point in having a retirement plan if you are not living your life now. There is no point in saying that -

“I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me". 

"I wish I hadn’t worked so hard. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings". 

"I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends." 

"I wish that I had let myself be happier then the story would have been different”.

There is no point in having the late realization. Self realization is better than the late realization. Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life. Inner dreams and love are the most important things in the life of a human being. And these two elements are the essence of the life which adds color and fragrance in our life but these elements becomes the biggest regrets of a human’s life during his last days if it is left unfulfilled.

Live your life now.

There is no future without the present.

Don’t find a reason to live life rather be a reason to live your life.

And unlock yourself from the hidden barriers and go express your true feelings.

Your story may turn out to be more vibrant and magnificent than the one you live now.

Life is like a story book. And you are the author of that book. Chapters in the book are the various instances of the author’s life and characters in the story are of the author’s choice.

Set out and live life without any terms and conditions !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: LOST IN Thoughts !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: LOST IN Thoughts !!!: Lost in thoughts! Thoughts are vital and powerful asset in this world that humans can actually possess. Thoughts rejuvenates human mind....

Lost in thoughts!

Thoughts are vital and powerful asset in this world that humans can actually possess. Thoughts rejuvenates human mind. It expresses the current state of mind. Thoughts are a part of the imaginary world of the mind that defines the materialistic state of the human. Thoughts and the nature resemble with each other a lot. The nature around us keeps changing. It is beautiful and peaceful during spring which brings life to the world. It is dark and soothing during winter. It is sprinkling and calm while drizzling during monsoon. It is like filaments and the burning desire during summer. Just like the nature which keeps changing its colors during different seasons; our thoughts also keeps on changing during different phases of life. Some thoughts are positive whereas some negative; some thoughts are creative whereas some powerful enough to change the view of the world. Some thoughts are like the water  in the empire of desert whereas some as the shadow. Water is the king and shadow is the queen in the empire of desert. Thoughts are the real image of the human nature; it is the foundation of the human existence. Thoughts are like the uncrowned king in the world of philosophy and nature.

My thoughts are like the stars in the sky.

My thoughts collide and create an impact.

My thoughts are countless but shines loud and clear.

My thoughts…

Lost in thoughts!!!

Thoughts are the imaginary weapon that is more powerful than the sword. Thoughts generated in the human mind are like the seasons that unleash the hidden beauty of the nature.

Seasons showcases  different shades of the nature. It brings out different colors of the nature.

It  enlightens and nourishes the Nature. Similarly thoughts rejuvenate our mind. It brings out the best in us. A perfect human being is not the one who manages his works, family or society in fact a perfect human being is the one who can manage his mind with his thoughts.

Thoughts are the luminous spark of reason that offers us hope even in the darkest hours; that produce wisdom. One can gain knowledge through education but can’t gain wisdom unless thoughts are generated.  One can gain happiness through the external luxury but can’t gain internal peace unless thoughts are rejuvenated. One can gain status and positions in the materialistic world but can’t gain soul to heart relationship status in the internal world of peace.

This world is the creation of the great thoughts that are provoking and inspiring. Never stop your thoughts. Let it flow like a stream where there is no shore. Let it grow and inspire.

Lost in thoughts!

SHADES OF LIFE: I AM SORRY !!!

SHADES OF LIFE: I AM SORRY !!!: I am sorry, I can’t please everyone. Is it necessary to please each and every person around us? Is it?? Ask this question to yourself no...

I AM SORRY !!!

I am sorry, I can’t please everyone.

Is it necessary to please each and every person around us? Is it?? Ask this question to yourself now …

We live in a society where we are so worried THINKING about what our neighbours think about us?? What our relatives think about us? What our parents think about us??  What our teachers think about us?? What our classmates think about us??  But we forget to “think about us”!

“Oh my grades are less! Now how will I show my face to the world?”

“Oh my neighbour’s daughter is in IIT, how I will show my face to my parents.”

“Oh I got only 2^nd prize for dance competition, how will I show my face to my teachers.”

·         And many more reasons to be sad and worried. Thinking about what others will think about ME is the main cause of worry. We worry a lot because we try to please others a lot. We worry a lot because our top most priority is the society we live in. There is nothing wrong in living with the terms and conditions of the society we live in but what is the use of this obedience if our wings are locked throughout the life. The wings to fly high and high. The wings to dream big. The wings which enlightens our mind and soul. The wings which is not a part of the society we live in. The wings which motivate us to do impossible. The wings which guide us through the difficult path of the life. We all have those wings to fly but for some it is locked. And they won’t dare to unlock it because of the imaginary worries that bother them. They want to please everyone around but don’t want to care about their actual dreams. When you keep the wings locked, how will you fly?? So stop pleasing everyone around unless and until you yourself is happy Inside.

These days we come across so many ways to handle stress, worries or problems in our life like coaching institutes for stress management, personality development. Training classes for peace of mind, books to tackle life problems with simple steps etc. But Take a moment of your life and just pause whatever you were doing and then ask a simple question to yourself “what is the reason for my worries?” And the answer will ultimately be because “we worry about the people around us”.

The human life span study shows that the human beings are mostly happy during their childhood days. Because as a child we need not have to worry about our grades, breakups or patch up , electricity bill or phone bill , attendance or grace marks , series or university exams etc etc…

As a grownup we have to be a responsible person and not a worrying person. Of course we must handle our exams, problems, marks, electricity bill etc, but we must never worry about it.  But what we do is to worry about certain stuffs in a way or the other rather than handling it in a more sensible way.

So stop worrying

Stop pleasing everyone around

Let the wings be unlocked

And follow your dreams.

Dreams will lead to destiny.

And destiny will certainly fill your heart and soul with the eternal peace.

SHADES OF LIFE: A Year Closer To Nature!!!A year full of hopes an...

SHADES OF LIFE: A Year Closer To Nature!!!
A year full of hopes an...: A Year Closer To Nature !!! A year full of hopes and dreams. I was gazing through the window of my room and was wondering how this ...

A Year Closer To Nature!!!

A year full of hopes and dreams.

I was gazing through the window of my room and was wondering how this year is going to change the world we live. But clueless and confused I closed the window and sat down to write this article. But before that, I switched on to the facebook which was flooded up with New Year wishes and pictures. People were busy posting their New Year resolutions, some updated their status as “thank god 2015 is over” while some others were still not able to believe that 2015 is over and we have stepped into the new vibrant year -2016. The virtual world had lots to offer but the real world was calm and serene. Some called up to wish me happy New Year while some texted over whatsapp. After a time slice of 1 hour all the commotion was finally over, at least for a while.  And then I wished myself a very happy new year with the true sense and feelings.  

This New Year post is not anything that is related to the New Year celebrations or the past years memories. In fact this post is just a reminder to the humankind about the uncrowned queen: the Nature and she should be welcomed in this vibrant and the glorious New Year. Nature always has something to offer to the human mind and soul. Unlike humans, nature doesn’t have a mixed behavior or emotions. Nature is something that remains calm and peaceful. I often see people going for vacations or travelling but the outcome of the trips and vacations are the phone gallery full of selfies and an updated facebook status. The aim of the travel should be to explore the nature and its beauty rather than the unrealistic virtual show off. Just like the nature, humans should also try to sparkle their inner beauty and freshness.  Each year should be marked up with a fresh and a new step towards the nature. Nature is the easiest connection that humans can ever get which neither requires any data pack connection or a wifi connection. Nature is the true picture of human soul that neither requires a like, comment or share. Nature doesn’t ask you to change your heart for any cause instead it will teach you to feel the pain and happiness of the mankind. Nature doesn’t ask you to sign in or logout to feel the connection instead you just have to open your arms and welcome the nature with your whole heart this year. Nature will stay with you forever and ever. Nature is a true philosopher and a supporter of the mankind. Let us celebrate this New Year with the Nature. 

Have a very happy new year!!